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Hi April,

I had taken this girl out a few times recently and the last time we ended up at my place. After messing around for a bit she said she was getting to turned on and was afraid she was going to make a mistake so she said she had to go. Then she said a few days later she wasn’t feeling it with me and that was that….What the heck happened? I thought it would be a good thing that I was turning her on!! Was she just saying she was getting to turned on as a excuse to leave?

Thanks!

[April Masini, your AskApril]

She may have realized that once a woman has sex, they get very attached to the man, emotionally, and she didn’t feel you were a good match for her, in spite of the sexual attraction, so she didn’t want to have sex and get emotionally attached to someone she knew wasn’t right for her in the long run. Sex for women is different than sex for men, and it changes relationships. She wasn’t ready for that change with you.

I hope that helps.

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