[Mmdaviney]

My fiancé and I have been together for 7 years. We recently had a 3 month break to make sure we really wanted to be together. In that time I snogged a guy and I found out he had been texting another woman. We got back together and everything is great and we r trying for a baby. but the problem is this other woman won’t stop texting my fiancé. As far as I know he doesn’t reply. I have asked him to text her and explain that he is happy and with someone but he hasn’t. I did make the stupid mistake of arguing with him about it and deleting her texts and number from his phone but I checked his phone this morning and there was another text from her. He said he would tell me if she texted again and he didn’t. I don’t know what to do. Everytime I bring up the conversation he gets annoyed because he’s so laid back he doesn’t think anything of it but it hurts me. It’s beginning to make me not trust him. Any help would be appreciated.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

After seven years you have to take a three month break to see if you want to be together?! 😯 I think you’re in a relationship that doesn’t have a strong foundation, and this is NOT the time to start trying to get pregnant. If you and this guy can’t even decide whether or not to get married after seven years together, why bring a child into the middle of such potential chaos? If you think a baby is going to make him love you more, you’re mistaken.

Since he won’t stop contact with this other woman, you have to understand that he isn’t putting your feelings or the relationship first and foremost.

It’s time for you to move on. I’m sorry because I’m quite sure this isn’t what you want to hear, but you’re walking down the wrong path. About face!

I hope that helps and that you’ll let me know how things go.

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