So, according to your pre-posting questionnaire, you’re 30 and single, and he’s 35, married with three kids. You’ve been messaging him for eight months, but never dated — and you want [i]him[/i] to let go of [i]you[/i]? 😯 There’s nothing to let go of. You’re not dating. And you can simply stop messaging him. Poof! It’ll all be over. He’s not holding you back. You are. 😕 It sounds like you’re trying to create a relationship in your head, that doesn’t exist in real life. The question you need to ask yourself is why you’re doing this. Choosing a married man who isn’t available to date is another way you’re making sure this relationship doesn’t happen in real life. 😳 The problem here is that you’re afraid to date real guys who are available and interested in you. 😉
My advice is to stop texting this guy who’s married and won’t date you — and start looking for available, interesting guys to date in real life. Once you’re out there dating, you won’t feel you need a fantasy life of texting to keep your mind occupied — because you’ll have a real, vibrant social life. I hope that helps. 🙂
