First of all, DO NOT send a note or letter to your now ex-boyfriend’s ex-girlfriend and baby mama. Stay out of the mess. While it’s understandable that you’re angry that she cheated with your boyfriend while you were dating him, she is not your responsibility nor should she be your concern. HE is the one who had the relationship with you that he betrayed, and HE is the one you should deal with — and you have! So don’t even spend another minute thinking about her.
Second of all, you did the right thing 😀 by breaking up with your boyfriend. He’s a loser. And you know how I know? What kind of guy cheats on his girlfriend and doesn’t use any protection with at least two different women within about a month? A loser. Sorry, but you deserve SO MUCH MORE, and I know you know it, too.
Your now ex-boyfriend should be very busy now having to support two children and making sure he spends time helping to raise both of them. If he’s any kind of a stand up guy, he won’t have time for a girlfriend right now. And if he’s not a stand up guy, who needs him? Not you!
I know you’re having doubts now, and need support because it’s hard to break up with people because those longings for the good times pinch at your heart. Well, it’s time to use your brain and give your heart a little rest for now. Stay clear of this guy, and when you do start dating again, look for someone who has character and self respect so that you don’t end up with someone who’s running around cheating on you, having unsafe sex, and getting other women (plural) pregnant at the same time. This may require changing some of your own behavior and dating different types of men than you’re used to, but I think the outcome is going to bring you a lot more happiness than your recent past has.
Good luck!! 😀
