This is a problem that will follow you throughout your life. Everyone has to learn to balance and what you have to balance has to do with where you are in your life. Sometimes it’s college courses, internships and part time jobs with relationships. Other times it’s marriage, children and careers. Regardless, this is a great time for you to work on this challenge!
Sometimes if you look at the challenge as a puzzle and literally make puzzle pieces out of all the things you want to do in a day or a week and then be honest about how many things you actually can do in a day or a week (weight the activities according to energy exerted for each one). Make a schedule on a big bulletin board and put the pieces in order of what you can realistically do. Maybe your computer applications can help you do this on a smart phone or a computer screen.
Then understand that you can’t do everything. Some things have to be put off or cut down on. Prioritize and make time for what is most important to you. This can be disappointing when you realize you can’t do everything, but making these choices consciously and knowing your limits and resources is a much better way to learn about yourself and the relationship!
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