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Hi April, last time I posted here was a while ago but your advice of taking it easy 😀 I took it. Everything has been going fine but yesterday something awful happened whit the guy I like, the one I talked about last time and you said he is inexperienced whit women and that I should stop thinking too much into the way he acts, he’s gotten better actually less tongue tied 😀. But now the problem is yesterday I was walking out of the classroom during lunch whit my best friend and he happened to be right in front of us. I don’t know why she was in such a hurry but she practically shoved him aside whit out saying “excuse me” and then when she had already shoved him “out of the way” she said “thanks”. I found that so rude! I could not believe she would do that! At the moment maybe I exaggerated a little and said a lot to her that it was wrong, that she should apologize and all that, but because of the way she is she took it all lightly and joked about it, I really love my besty and at that moment no matter how mad I was I could not help but laugh at her jokes yet after the laugh I would again insist that what she did was wrong.

In the end she refused to apologize to him, saying that she said “thanks” and that she would be careful to say “excuse me” next time. Lunch was over so I had to give up. But I feel guilt 😕 … both for not been able to have her apologize and for laughing! 😐 Oh… I feel so guilty for laughing. I want to tell him I’m sorry and that I should have not laughed, but I did not have the chance that day and today is a national day here in my country so we don’t go to school. So tomorrow is when I can say I’m sorry… The problem is: Should I really say sorry? I know he saw me laughing I saw him. But I’m not sure if it would be proper, my other friends (not the one that does not want to apologize) say I should. But if I really should, how should I go about it? I am kind of nervous and confused about what to say 😳 . Any advise?

Thanks for reading my problems again, really. Hope you can give me a hand again. 🙂

[April Masini, your AskApril]

I’d like it if you could post this question on the same link as the last question you wrote, to which you refer here. Just go to that last post and hit the reply button, and then post this question there. 🙂 That way I (and all the readers here) can see the history of your situation and give you much better advice with the whole story in front of us!

Thank for doing that and as soon as you post that way, I’ll give you my best response. 😀

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