[mrembo]

Hi i am new here, but i need som advice
It is like this , i want to know what you think about this,
The company i am working with had a weekend travel to another country last month and when we were there i found out that i had the best room nobody else had where i could watch the sea, it was above all other we were just 50 people, i did not consider this special until when my boss came to help me finding the way to the restaurant where they were sitting during the first night because i was late to catch up with them.
he found me at the beach walking and then he open up his arms to hug me and i got the bear tight quick hug and we walked to the place, during the way he asked me how i liked the room. i answered him as it was and then i said i was sorry that i could not be there in time etc. he then told me if it was ok to talk in the sand in the high heels.. etc, we were at the place i sat down and said hi to everybody and sat down. then i noticed that he was smilling and looking everytime i laughed loud with people that i sat with..
To be continued,,,,

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You didn’t really give me very many clues! It sounds like you want to better understand the changing relationship between you and your boss. And from what little you’ve written, it sounds like he’s got a crush on you, but since you’re married, as indicated in your pre-posting questionnaire, you’re not sure what to do with your boss. My advice is to focus on what you want. If you want to be married, then you should be professional at work, and if you don’t want to be married, then focus on either working on your marriage, or divorcing. Getting involved with your boss while you’re married is going to create a lot of chaos at work and at home, so be clear on your own goals before too long, and then act on what it is you want – with clarity. 😉 I hope that helps!

[Rayan lee]

Hi,
If your boss only likes your smile, then talk about the next salary increment now, but remember, there is a risk of drowning in this sea view. If your husband is waiting at home, then send the boss’s smile out of the office and only focus on your career.
And Ask April was absolutely right that you have to decide what you want. If you want to save your marriage, then be professional with the boss. If not, then work on the divorce first. Clarity is essential to avoid chaos at both work and home.

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