[Anonymous]

My b/f of two years had to move back to his home, which he rented to a woman he used to have a partnership in with this house. She recently fell into hard times and had to move back into the house to rent it. He had to leave his apt at his brothers where he was living.
So, he is renting the house with her, but says its just a financial arrangement.
I trust him and love him , but I am having trouble dealing with this.
What should I do?

[Ask April Masini]

If your boyfriend has a plan to only stay in this situation for a finite amount of time, there is reason to be understanding of his situation. However, if there is no plan for him to get back on his feet or get a male roommate, then I think you’ve got a deal breaker coming.

It’s hard to imagine he couldn’t find another living situation other than the one he has now with another woman he used to “partner” (whatever that means in your post) with.

Find out what his plans are, and if he’s not planning on leaving his living with another woman who isn’t you, then you should start dating other men who are more interested in living with only one woman: you. 🙂

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