My boyfriend asked that I get rid of all pics of my exes. I get why he would make such a request so I got rid of those from my computer. But some of those pics are from trips to Europe (with my ex bf) and Australia (I was single but there are pics with someone I got together with) and since these remain memorable, possibly once in a lifetime experiences for me (no, not my ex or hook up, but the places I visited) so I thought I could keep these so long as the ex was not in them. There are also pics of family from these trips as I have family in Greece and Australia.
One day my boyfriend was rifling through my stuff and came across printed versions of the pictues I deleted from my computer. He took it as a sign that I was dishonest and the only reason I deleted the pictures was because I knew I had printed copies. I honestly didn’t remember having printed them off, seeing that the pics were from 2002 and 2005 he could see why maybe I didn’t realize there were copies in boxes stashed in a closet for years. nor did I appreciate him rifling through my stuff.
Now my BF says I should delete ALL the pictures of these trips because he knows I was with my ex/hook up, assumes that a lot of the pictures were taken by them, etc. My ex is just getting increasingly unreasonable, now when we discuss travel plans he doesn’t want to go anywhere I went with my ex or even mention the word Australia!
Am I being difficult? To me he is just being jealous and it is only getting worse to the point of being unreasonable.
