We met through fb, she was 21 i was 26. Initially she didn’t look attractive to me. She was very very innocent and sorta dumb too. Somehow we started dating and after 1.5 years she really became my everything. All this whole we’ve only met twice, I was working offshore. We speak everyday though, over 4 – 6 hours. I think we only didn’t talk twice in the 1.5 years we dated. Just as things got serious and she wanted us to get married, she decided how many kids she wanted, where to live.. etc etc…
So when i finished work and came home, i moved to her town to spend time with her but she said its over. She said she had some personal issues at home that she can’t be with me. She wouldn’t call wouldn’t talk over the phone. Wouldn’t meet me. It was all over text. Fine… I gave her some space and thought time will heal But she just drifted further and further. Bought a new puppy to replace me ( ask she said ). She just really grew away and I didn’t do anything wrong. She said it was something in her family. She couldn’t date me, it was wrong on her part to do so. So it has been 3 months since she left me. I tried to move on but i can’t get rid of these letter she sent me and the things she gave me. It just ins’t fair for someone to so abruptly disappear from your life is it? She has blocked me on everything. I can’t get hold of her. I respect her happiness so i am not going to go show up at her door step. But i do drive by just to watch her go to work…. What do I do April?
Could I try and initiate a contact? Is it worth it? or am I drawing dead here?
FYI she isn’t dating anyone atm as far as i can tell. I’ve spoken to her mutual friends too. They said she had to break up due to her family circumstances, and that she isn’t dating anyone else.
~Sam
