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Hi April,

I broke up with Mr.J for like 8 months already. We were in a relationship for like one year and a half. We loved each other dearly but sadly we have to break up because we are from different countries and our cultures and family background are so different. We are pretty sure that both my family and his family could not accept our relationship. However, we are still friends after the broke up. We keep each other updated through online and text messages but we no longer visit each other. Now, after 8 months, I got myself a new bf. I like my bf a lot but at the same time I still could not forget the romance that me n Mr.J once had. Mr.J knew that I’m currently in a relationship. Starting from last month, we started seeing each other again. I went out with him for 3 times already. Each time I went out with my ex, I’ll inform my bf 1st and he is okay with it. He trusts me but i betrayed him. I had sex with my ex each time we meet up. The 1st time we meet up, he wants to have sex with me but that time i haven’t tell him yet I’m already in a relationship. I rejected to have sex with him but after he begged me for many times, I agreed to it. I feel so bad after that. But then again, when we meet for the 2nd and 3rd time, we did it again. I didn’t reject him this time. I’m thinking to confess to my bf that I cheated on him but I’m really worried that he might broke up with me after what I did to him. Should I confess to my bf or I just keep it to myself and not seeing my ex anymore?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Don’t tell your boyfriend about your indiscretion because you haven’t been dating him that long and it doesn’t sound like there is a real commitment between you two yet. You’re still figuring out if you want to pursue a relationship with him so far.

However, dating your ex is just wasting your time and his. You can never really move on if you’re still sleeping with your ex-boyfriend. Since you’ve decided that a relationship with him will never work out, stop seeing him and stop sleeping with him. Whether you decide to pursue a serious relationship with this guy or someone else, the decision to stop seeing your ex-boyfriend is one you need to make and stick with.

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