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    aversmith246
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    So I am currently a freshman in college and I have a boyfriend that is from my home town. I love him a lot and we really seem to be making things work and I’m really happy about that. The other night though I was hanging out with some friends and there was this one really really nice guy there who I would love to have as a friend. The problem is all night he was hitting on me. I have never had a guy hit on me as much as he was before. I mentioned I have a boyfriend and he seemed a little taken aback but even after he just kept flirting with me. I know he is a nice guy and he was also a little drunk so that may have been the cause for his forward nature but now I know he definitely likes me. Whenever he would think that I had spaced out or something he’d say under his breath “I really want to hook-up with you” and i’d pretend like I didn’t hear and ask him what he said and each and every time he would deny saying anything. Gah I know he is really nice and i want to be his friend but i don’t know if its actually going to be possible. What do you think I should do? How to I get it across that I just want to be his friend without saying that directly to him?

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    You can’t be his friend. I know that this is probably hard for you to understand because you’re relatively new to dating, but men and women can’t be friends. The reason is that one person always wants more — and in this case, he doesn’t want to be your friend. He just wants to hook up. You can tell him you want to be friend; you can take out a billboard in neon lights that says you don’t want to be his friend — but that still won’t make HIM want to be your friend. 😕 Whether you say it directly or indirectly, it’s not going to matter because what you want is in direct conflict with what he wants.

    I hope that helps. 😉

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