My ex boyfriend broke up with me on NYE after days of ignoring me and telling me to leave him alone, I have a feeling the break up has to do with his friends and family not liking me for his friends had started to tell him that he was changing and that some of them were beginning to not like him anymore and well his sister and mom just had that look whenever I was around them. Anyway! Yes, I admit, I begged him for a week afterwards to give take me back and not to do this. But, after being rejected for that long I finally left him alone. To my surprised he messaged me the first weekend of February saying that he knew I hated him, but he still loves me, misses me, that there isn’t a day that goes by that he hasn’t thought of me and that he has been miserable without and without talking to me. He said he wants to be friends, to go slow, to fix this. So of course I said yes! I was estatic that he said those things to me!! But, I told him that if we were going to talk, to fix this, that I didn’t want him talking to anyone else (he said he wasn’t) which, I believed, because we text everyday, ALL day. I wake up every morning to a good morning text from him. I also told him that I didn’t want him to be on any dating sites, he said he would get rid of them. (Okay, I know this is but, but I checked. And he hadn’t gotten on them since he said he would get rid of them!) so, last night I was working up the nerve to finally ask him if he wanted to get together just to hang out since I haven’t seen him our break up when something in my gut told me to check….well, I texted a friend and asked her to check the dating site. She sent me a screen shot and he was on…I got on Facebook and a couple days or weeks, I didn’t look, his friends were talking about him being on Tinder. I’m so hurt and confused. I didn’t bring it up to him. I don’t want him to be mad at me and to Leave again and not be in my life at all. I’ve always felt from the moment I laid my eyes on him that he’s the one I’m suppose to be with him. He’s the one for me. He’s even said the exact same thing to me. He said he believes we’re soulmates. To break up, and message me months later saying the things he said..then to get back on the dating sites…I’m hurt and confused. What do I do?!
