Let me introduce you to myself, My name is Julie and I’m twenty right now. I have been dating this guy for about two years now and at first we really had a great time together. I love being with him and around him but lately I’ve been feeling suffocated. This is my problem, at first when we started dating he would drive to see me every so often and then he lost his car. He started staying at my house but of course I’m not aloud to have him sleep over unless it would be the weekend. I hid him from my parents for a while, like about six months while he was staying there all the time but then my dad had seen him leaving the house and started screaming. I ended up moving to Ohio with him to his dads house but that didn’t last very long since I couldn’t seem to find a job. We lived there for about seven months then I came home because we started to have problems like every relationship. Well he is so attached that I guess he ended up coming to Pittsburgh where I live and hung out with me for the weekend, but I ended up getting in an accident when I was at a party with three people in Butler when my boyfriend (his name is Michael) poured gas-o-line on the fire to make it bigger when the flames rose up and burnt my legs and hands. I went to the hospital and couldn’t walk for a month but my parents let him stay to help me go to the bathroom and eat and keep me company. Then I started walking again I started not having any pain and got a job. He started to stay there all the time again and I had told him that I really don’t want to but what was I suppose to do he helped me for so long and he doesn’t want to be away from me. His mom lives about twenty minutes from me and he still doesn’t have a car. So now at this point today he is STILL at my house and wants to move out and get a place with me, we both have jobs and everything but I don’t want to move out yet, he is twenty four and out of college and I haven’t even started college. I wanted to stay at my parents until i can get money for a better car since mine is a 1992 and is about to break any day, and go to college. I really love him and want to be with him but I just feel so suffocated and stuck in a situation where it will end everything if I tell him to go to his moms. Plz someone give me advice, should I just end the relationship and worry about myself right now or should I move out with him? I just want space from him……..
