Now, I’m a little confused! A month ago you wrote me about a woman who appears to be different than this woman. It appears that you’ve been trying to date other women for the last couple of months, and you’ve been writing me about those problems, but now, if I’ve got this correct, you are having trouble seeing your ex-girlfriend (is she an ex girlfriend yet?) starting to date other men.
I think you’re going to have to understand that things are going to be uncomfortable for a while until you transition out of this last relationship and really let go of her. It’s understandable that even though you don’t want her, you don’t want other men to be with her, because that happens a lot with men and women. However, you have to muster up all the maturity you can and understand that since you’ve already started to look for other women to date, it’s only fair that she do the same.
I know that this is hard, but you have to balance your heart and your head — your heart wants her to be yours forever … even though you want other women, but your head has to know what’s fair is not always heartfelt.
I hope this helps. Let me know how things go, and please follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url]. 😀
