We have been dating for a year now, he is a great guy but I’m just confused. In the beginning, it was great intense and passionate but then..This is going to sound so dumb and I don’t know if something is wrong with me but he is very “It’s 2013 girls should have to pay for half of the dinner.” So for the first time in a relationship I started here and there paying for half of our outings, but then he made a comment about the total amount of what he has spent while dating me. After that comment I’ve paid for half on everything, but once he said that I don’t find him as attractive or see him as a man. I know my thinking might be backwards but that’s how I was raised that a man should pay and not throw in a girls face “Well since I started dating you this is how much I’ve spent.” It would be different if we were both still in college and starving but he has a good job, I even feel I should be paying for half of gifts I get.
I’m also confused because I feel that he is more in love with me than I am of him. He talks about marriage and wanting me to have his children,and it freaks me out and he knows it does because I’ve told him. Then I also get thoughts of cheating,I’m turning 25 and this has been my 2nd relationship and sometimes I just want to be single. OMG I’m a hot mess, please help I’m so confused.
