So I’m in an unhappy marriage with 2 kids, last year I reconnected with my first bf, I fell for him all over again, it was amazing right I was having this affair and coming home happy, but in January all messages stopped and he wouldn’t take my calls, so I was heartbroken but I got used to it, it’s over right, two weeks ago he pitches up at my work, first time I’ve seen him in like 20 years, then he left and went right on ignoring me, and right when I’ve just got over him he pitches up at my work yester and says nothings changed he still wants to be with me . I don’t understand what he wants from me? Why does he keep coming turning my life upside down and then carry on ignoring me?