Your husband is betraying you emotionally. 😳 What’s going on in your marriage? It’s easy to point fingers and give him ultimatums not to talk to or see this other woman, but I think a better strategy is to ask yourself what’s missing in the marriage that he’s looking for with this other woman? Or was he always like this?
If you feel the need to talk to him, my advice is not to speak negatively, but instead say things like, “I really like it when you keep our secrets between us because I feel that it brings us closer together.” 😉 Avoid ultimatums if at all possible, and use positive reinforcement to bring him back into the marriage so he doesn’t want to go outside it for emotional and social support. 🙂
