[confused94]

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for two years and I’ve had everyone telling me that he doesn’t treat me right. But I don’t know what to do. Wahl here’s the story I met him right after a break up I had with someone that was 7 years older than me and we started dating about a month after we meet and then a month later I moved in when I turned 18. So now I’m almost 20 and he’s been in and out of jail for driving without a license the past year.I’ve paid for most of his court stuff and bed fees for jail but he doesn’t seem to appreciate it or me.ever since he’s been out this last time his friend has been at our house almost every day and I can never talk to him.Well I wouldn’t beable to talk to him anyway it would turn into a fight. But I’ve been working two jobs for the past 2 1/2 months to support us because he doesn’t have one and I’m getting tired of supporting him.all I’ve ever wanted in a relationship is for a man to be there for me and to be my best friend someone I was completely comfortable with but it doesn’t seem like he wants to be that for me. And I can’t do what I want like dying my hair or anything without him saying something negative. My family and friends want McGee to leave him. I’m just not sure what I want to do I love him but I don’t think I’m in love anymore and haven’t been for a while.my friends have even gone as far as try to set me up with someone else. And another thing or dog is technically his but I bought her and I don’t know if I could handle letting her go off we split up. I’m so confused and hurt what should I do?

[AskApril Masini]

What should you do? Simple! 🙂 You should understand that if you know what you want, and you accept something other than what you want, you’re going to be unhappy. It’s really that basic. 😉

This is what you wrote that you want: [quote]all I’ve ever wanted in a relationship is for a man to be there for me and to be my best friend someone I was completely comfortable with but it doesn’t seem like he wants to be that for me. [/quote]

But instead, you’ve decided to date someone who isn’t that. 😳 If you stay with him, you’ll be unhappy. If you decide to go after what you do want then you won’t. Nobody is forcing you into this — your behavior doesn’t match your goals, that’s all. If you change your own behavior so that it’s in sync with what you want, you’ll stop being confused, and you may even become happy. 😀

I hope that helps.

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