Hi there, I’m new here and looking for some advice please.
I have been married for 3.5 year and we have a 3 and almost 2 year old.
I had “felt” when I was pregnant that something wasn’t right with us, but when I voiced my concerns I got told I was crazy and needed to get my head checked.
A few months later I found out my husband had been chatting to women via Web cam sites that you pay for. He promised never to do anything like this again.
I then found out that he had been messaging a female “friend” always telling her that he loved her and put kisses on the message. They dated when they were younger. I told him to cut off contact as I wasn’t comfortable. This carried on. We had yet another argument about it and he promised to never speak to her. He continued behind my back. When I found out it was a her or me. And he refused to cut off contact. At which point I said I was enough. He begged me and promised to never speak to her again. I don’t trust that he hasn’t spoken to her. He deletes messages and Internet history.
