[AlexFromHell]

Mind me, this is not something i usually do and it’s the first time i’m asking for dating advice, but i thought that perhaps it could have help me clear my mind a little bit.

Two months ago i’ve met a guy online and we met for the first time one month after chatting online. We live on the opposite sides of our country and therefore can’t see each other as much as i would like to. I’m not going to see him till summer.

Here’s the thing, i am really not sure whether he actually likes me. Around two weeks after we first started talking there was an obvious flirting between us that eased down with time is almost non-existent from his side at this point. He told me things that hit me right in the heart, to be honest; in a way that no one ever did before. At this point if i’m giving him a compliment or try to flirt he usually just says “Awww you”. What i recall mostly is that he was calling me very charming before, perhaps it’s just natural to do less of it after a while? Or is it because he lost the interest?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Long distance relationships are difficult to maintain and if you’ve only had one date, and can’t have another one until the summer, keeping interest going is definitely a challenge. In addition, when you meet online, there’s a great chance that he’s talking to other women, as well, so you’ve got competition! My advice is to see how things go, and don’t put too much emphasis on having a relationship as much as on getting to know each other and seeing if you want to have a relationship. 😉

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