[BillyThomson]

I am currently in a dilemma where I am falling for a girl but she has a boyfriend! She has no problem texting me for hours a day while at the same time, responding well to my flirting and teasing and she even tells me she likes it. However, I know I could be the one wasting my time here. However, I know her relationship with her current boyfriend isn’t the strongest. So how do I tell her that I like her but can’t keep giving her my attention? I don’t want to come off negatively so that when she does break it off with her current boyfriend, she’ll still think of me as a potential mate.

[April Mașini, your AskApril]

You can ask her out on a date and compete for her attention! 😉 If she says no, because she has a boyfriend, then you can tell her that you really like her, but you’re looking for a girlfriend, not a friend zone situation — and then move on. You’ll be a lot more attractive to her if you’re not available and not needy or around at her beck and call. And if she hears you’re dating other women, she might even get jealous! 🙂 She may see you differently and decide that her boyfriend isn’t everything she hoped he’d be. 😎

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