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I’m 20 yrs old and never had a girlfriend before and I have mental retardation which is probably why I’m still single. All of high school not one girl wanted to talk to me so I start getting depressed. So I joined POF.com which is very depressing. The 1st girl I talk to on there talked to me for 3 months and the day before the 1st date she cancels and said she wants to be friends even though we were still friends on facebook I saw that she chose another guy over me. The next couple years on there was girls leading me on to build their ego. Next was my best friends sister who I had a crush on for a couple months. She went through a very bad breakup so I tried to cheer her up. We did go on a date and she said she liked spending time with me that day. When I asked her to consider me for a relationship she said she doesnt want to date for a LONG while. Last was a girl I recently met. She seemed she was nice and pretty but one problem she is homeless and hangs around with drunks and beggers who beg for money. Most of the time I spend with her is when shes with those people. She said if I dont like hanging around them then I cant talk to her anymore. Can I find that one special girl in my lifetime or did I get cursed of being single forever??

[April Masini, your AskApril]

It sounds like you’re doing a lot right — you keep trying, you’re open minded, and you looking online, as well as in real life! 🙂 The thing is, it can take a while to find someone to date — and I promise, you won’t be single forever!

My advice is to slow down and focus on flirting. Smile at women, compliment them, focus on enjoying each other’s company before asking them out on a date. And if you have a good date or two, keep going — but don’t ask them for a relationship for several months. It’s a lot better to get to know each other first, so you won’t scare someone off by coming on too strong. 😉

Hope that helps!

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