[tonto11]

Hello I have somewhat strange situation

this is how it goes.

I used to work with a giril and on the first day i meth her i liked her. with the time we started to play on each other minds but then she told me that she is married and i stopped.

it passed a several weeks and i changed my job.

then one day she calls me and the first words was that she left her husband. and wanted to meet me. ok i went and met her

then she explained that it wasnot her husband , it was just a boyfriend that had 2 kids from another woman, she dont have any one and she moved in my city, so ofcorse she wanted me to help her with the moving.

I as a big time foul helped her, then we started going out. with the time we kissed and that was it all was going great untill the kissing. then all stopped

she stopped writing me back and it passed around a month. for me it was agonizing but i stopped too to look for her.

then one night i got a message saying that she was ill etc etc. i replied to her saying that i am felling bad for her and hope she gets better. * lots of rubish i thinkg*

how ever then it passed a few days she started sending pictures of her to me, great but strange. and for the finish she wanted me to visit her house to see her tv.

i went to check it , it was ok working good, but she wasnot there it was just her girilfriend renting the apartment with her. she comes late, gives me a kiss and says that she has to go to work i got angry and didnt say anything. just left.

then in my anger i wrote her,

sory for leaving like that but i dint want to say something bad and hurt you. you know that i like you alot so l thing that is better to leave it like that. i know your situation and dont want to make it harder for you. i like you and i know that you know my feelings as i have shown them to you. so i will delete you number from my phone so i dont disturb you. if you want to continue seing each other great, if you want just to be friend that is good. it was great time with you. take care.

now i am bugged cause i dont have any answer to this.

i thinkg i just ruined it didnt i

[April Masini, your AskApril]

It really sounds like she was playing games with you, and wasn’t that interested in you. You may have liked parts of her — but she didn’t treat you very well, and your instinct that this isn’t someone who’s going to be straight with you, was a good one. You didn’t ruin anything — because there wasn’t anything to ruin. I think you should move on and find someone who’s more interested in dating you and less interested in playing games. 😉

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