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Did she lose interest?

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    john84
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    A girl and i have been texting for about 3 months. Ive known her forever and we live in different states cause she is in school. It used to be every other day texting but it then turned into everyday. She usually text me in the morning when she wakes up, or a little bit after. She told me that she likes me last month and that she wants to date. There was a lot of flirting in the conversations already, but then it just jumped up after that. I am just getting out of a relationship myself and didn’t want to rush things. The last couple weeks, she has kind of slowed down and not talked to me as much. She said that she is busy with school, which is fine and well she has to live her life. But for the last week, i have been getting one word answers and sometimes no reply’s. I’ll just say hey and i won’t get anything back for the rest of the day. I don’t want to over communicate because then i feel like i might be bothering her. I took a day of from talking to her, and then she hit me up the following day. I can’t tell if she is waiting for me to make the next move or she is done with me. My question is should i just man up and ask her whats going on? I feel like girls don’t like when you do this over the phone.Or should i leave it alone and wait for her to be home in 2 weeks and deal with it then? I really like her and want her to be my girlfriend, but if she just wants to stay friends i don’t want it to be awkward.

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    gin1288
    Member #138,299

    is it possible she may have met someone else? or shes very busy. I think you should talk to her. Communication is the key to relationships. And then you will know where you stand

    #22414

    I think you’re right — she did lost interest. After three months of texting, you never took her out on a date, and there was never any escalation of the relationship. 😮 She moved on. You gave her the impression that you were interested in a texting buddy. 😳

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