[jaz1118]

I am a 22 year old woman and my boyfriend is 26. We have been together a little over 2 years now. A while back we were having a good conversation just talking about anything and everything. Somehow we got into to conversation of his 21st birthday when he told me it was the worst year of his life, he told me it was when him and his high school girlfriend broke up, she ended it after 4 years. I felt bad for him but i also felt there was a lot of emotions still there. He then said that he knew what it was like for people who have divorced and that even though they were not married or lived together or shared money, he still felt he went through a divorce. I think that him saying this kind of made me feel that he doesn’t take an actual marriage seriously if he considers himself divorced. I though it was rather dramatic, and it really upset me. So when it came up again he said that i just don’t understand because i haven’t gone through that. I wish i could just tell him something to make him see that it was his first girlfriend and it ended and he needs to get over it and that in no way did he go through a divorce. Am i being dramatic or is this something he doesn’t want to let go of?

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[jaz1118]

ok done! thank you 😀

[April Masini, your AskApril]

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