[julie]

class started 2 weeks ago. i sit in the front row. the class has probably 100 students in it even though the assembly classroom has 230 seats, so the students are scattered around the class. I have been sitting in the front row. the other day, i guess this hot guy who i don’t know noticed me because he sat right next to me even though there were many other seats available. he sat next to me again in class today so i think maybe he might be attracted to me. he hasn’t spoken to me. he is probably intimidated.

i also have a guy friend in the class, but we don’t sit in the same row. he never approaches me after class because he has to rush to his class after. today he did though and he caught me off guard. he asked me how i was feeling because on saturday i told him i had leg pain. he also asked me to hang out today after classes. however, i feel like as my guy friend was approaching me, the hot guy in my row kind of smiled at me and maybe was going to start a conversation.

i was not so friendly to my guy friend because he caught me off guard and i was pissed that he was being a cock block (whether it was on purpose or not). but i was still nice to him i guess.

now i feel that the hot guy maybe thinks i am unfriendly by observing me talking to my guy friend, and wont ever try talking to me. if he doesn’t sit next to me again next class ill be really pissed at my guy friend for being a cock block. do u think the hot guy will sit next to me again and talk to me? if he doesn’t by next class, should i start a conversation? what should i say? i am really shy and nervous.

i feel like maybe the hot guy won’t sit next to me anymore because he either thinks my guy friend is my boyfriend or that i am a bitch because of the way i was treating my guy friend.

[AskApril Masini]

The hot guy is looking for a clue that you’re interested, so you can let him know you are by talking to him first, flirting with him — or sitting next to him! 😉 Guys want something to chase after, so if you give him that something — either by flirting, smiling, making small talk with him or complimenting him (even better!), he’ll have something to chase! Next time you’re in the same class, give him your best, flirtatious smile, and flirt with him. 😎

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[julie]

thanks for your insight. but lets say he stops sitting next to me in class? i always arrive to class earlier so i am sitting first. he could either now think i am mean because i was quiet with my guy friend, or think my guy friend is my boyfriend.

[AskApril Masini]

Then go over and flirt with him before class, after class — or if possible, during class. You can also pick up and go sit next to him. 😎

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[julie]

there is this cute guy in my music class. i dont know him. the class started 3 weeks ago. however, this past week he started sitting next to me. i have never noticed him before because the class is big. the class has around 100 students but the assembly has 230 seats, meaning that all the students are scattered. this means that he chose to sit next to me because there is plenty other seats available. i sit in the front row, and no one wants to sit there especially because the class is so boring. i think he might have sat there because of me. i scanned the row i am in and theres no other cute girls besides me (not to sound cocky). he has not spoken to me yet. he is probably intimidated and i am intimidated also. last class he smiled at me when we were packing up our bags to leave. do you think he is into me? if yes, how can i start a conversation with him? we don’t know each others names.

the reason why i am unsure that he is into me is because he looks like a jock. i am considered to be really pretty but in a traditional, regal way. like audrey hepburn. i also do not wear revealing clothes. i feel like maybe he would think we do not go together.

[AskApril Masini]

[quote]do you think he is into me? if yes, how can i start a conversation with him?[/quote]

I’ve given you lots of good advice on this problem, but it doesn’t seem you’re taking it. 😳 Sometimes people don’t want to do the work required to get a date. 😳 When this happens they ask the same questions over and over again so they can avoid taking action. I would encourage you to re-read my advice, focus on it, and take it! 😉 All you have to do to find out if he’s interested enough to date you is to flirt with him. Starting a conversation is as easy as complimenting him or talking about the class.

I think you should buy the book I wrote for women who want to find, get and keep the guy, called Think & Date Like A Man. You can get it for $8.99 as an e-book that downloads automatically, here: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url]. This book is important for you because it sounds like you want details and basics, and with this book, you can read, re-read and see in a structured format just how to dress, how to behave, what to say, and when to say it….

Buy the book, read it, and then let’s talk further if you have other questions. 😉

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[julie]

this is not the same guy as before…

basically i did not know him before class started.. 3 weeks ago, the first day of class, this guy comes in and sits right next to me, even though there were many other seats open.. it takes him like 5 minutes to strike up a conversation, but he does.. ever since then, he has been sitting next to me.. he is nice.. he doesn’t really flirt (at least i don’t think so).. but i have always found it bizzare how he sat right next to me the first day of class without knowing me.. everyone else who was in the class at the time, were scattered.. no one was sitting next to each other.. the class did not start for 15 mins.. anyways a few days ago he asked me if i would ever want to get dinner or something outside of class.. i said yes and then we exchanged numbers.. today in class he asked me if i can do dinner tonight.. i went to dinner with him at the dining hall in our college. i cant tell if he likes me. he was being nice, but he was not really complimenting me. is it possible he only likes me as a friend? considering all the details i gave you…

on a side note, why do you think he sat right next to me the first day of class when there were hundreds of seats open? we did not know each other.

[AskApril Masini]

YES! He likes you! He sits next to you and invites you to dinner — he definitely likes you!! 😀 If you like him, let him know by flirting with him! 🙂

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[julie]

do you think he is into me? (this is a different guy than the others I have mentioned)

this guy and I were studying together in the library and his book was on my desk so i accidentally took it back to my dorm (it really was an accident but i don’t know what he thinks). i texted him saying i accidentally took back his book and he wrote back.. “haha give it back to me tomorrow please.. and take good care of it 😉“.. was he flirting or just being playful? it is the first time he has sent me a wink. after that i said, “haha ok i will” and he didnt text back.. we are not friends, but he asked me to study with him so we did (that’s the night i accidentally took back his book). he was not flirty before while studying, but maybe thats just because his friends were there. in general, in class, he never sits next to me even when there’s a seat open next to me. But maybe he will sit next to me now since we studied together.

[julie]

this is a different guy than who i have ever mentioned..

There is this guy in my class in college.. the class meets once a week.. we never sit together and he never sits next to me even if there is a seat open.. we never talked until monday night when we saw each other in the library and asked if i wanted to study together for our upcoming quiz.. i said yes and we exchanged numbers.. we studied together last night in the library for our quiz which was the next day.. his friends were there.. so i don’t know if he would act flirty if they were not around because i know guys act differently when their friends are around.. last night i accidentally (it really was an accident) took back his textbook because it was on my desk.. i texted him and told him that i have his book (not sure if he believes i took it home accidentally but i think he does).. he wrote back saying “haha please bring it to class tomorrow.. and take good care of it 😉“.. he winked.. i responded saying.. “haha ok i will”.. he did not respond after that.. i cant tell if he was being flirty or playful.. anyways, i gave him back his book today in class and we laughed about it.. he sat next to me in class for the first time today.. he wasnt being flirty.. u dont really get to talk to other students much in that class anyway so i dont know.. after the quiz, we left class and he said.. “have a good weekend” and we walked in different directions.

on a side note, while we were studying in the library he said that he would be right back because he had to use the bathroom.. his friends were i guess teasing him and said something along the lines of.. “he is going to jerk off”.. i am not sure if they said that because he was studying with me.. i did not really socialize with his friends so it would be kind of random for them to say it because of me.

[AskApril Masini]

[quote]
I’ve given you lots of good advice on this problem, but it doesn’t seem you’re taking it. Sometimes people don’t want to do the work required to get a date. When this happens they ask the same questions over and over again so they can avoid taking action. I would encourage you to re-read my advice, focus on it, and take it! All you have to do to find out if he’s interested enough to date you is to flirt with him. Starting a conversation is as easy as complimenting him or talking about the class.

I think you should buy the book I wrote for women who want to find, get and keep the guy, called Think & Date Like A Man. You can get it for $8.99 as an e-book that downloads automatically, here: https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html. This book is important for you because it sounds like you want details and basics, and with this book, you can read, re-read and see in a structured format just how to dress, how to behave, what to say, and when to say it….

Buy the book, read it, and then let’s talk further if you have other questions.
[/quote]

Buy the book and read it!! I’m not just trying to sell books here. And I’m not trying to brush you off, but you keep asking questions that are so similar to each other, and it really feels like you’re not slowing down long enough to take in the advice I’m giving you. If you buy and read the book, you’ll have complete answers to the questions you’re asking — and more. 😉

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