[mariekandy12]

There’s this guy that started talking to me and asking me to hangout with stuff and was calling me beb, but everytime I ask him to hangout he always has something to do, or has an excuse, I’m thinking he’s shy but I am not sure, he usually messages me every night and he didn’t lastnight, I had to message him, and he wasn’t being very talkative, he was using smileys and stuff but usually he keeps the conversation going.. and I am not sure how to keep a good conversation going or how to be “Flirty” I feel like I am a boring person so talk to and I don’t want that.. I want him to like me and WANT to hangout with me.. I’m confused tho, does he like me or is he just leading me on?

[Ask April Masini]

The best way to find out if a guy likes you — and if he likes you ENOUGH to have a relationship with you — is to watch and react. This means you should NOT message him if he doesn’t message you. When you do that you take away the opportunity to find out how much he wants to contact you or how often. Also, you should NOT ask him to hang out for the same reason. When you take the lead, you deny yourself the opportunity to find out how much he really wants to date you because if he does, he’ll ask you out.

In addition, guys want a woman that they feel is worth the chase! If you start throwing yourself at him then there’s nothing for him to chase! Instead of becoming the grand prize he wins, you’re the booby prize that everyone gets at the door. 🙁

As for flirting — you’re right. This is one way to entice a guy to want to date you. You should read Think & Date Like A Man, for to learn EXACTLY how to flirt with your guy. Here’s the link where you can buy the book: [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url]. It’s going to help you a lot. You can also buy it on the websites for Barnes & Noble and Amazon.

Please follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url]. 😀

[mariekandy12]

Yeah I understand what you mean, I did a mistake today tho, His bbm said off work early msg with plans, so I messaged him and asked if he wanted to hangout and he said ill let you know im with a friend rightnow, then i said alrighty, then he messaged me a little while later and said wha are you doin:) and i said laying in beddd and the convo wasnt going like really great, so i used an excuse to go in the shower to not continue the convo so i didnt look like an idiot, then about a half hour later i said “backk” and he said “kk” but i didnt know what to say so i didn’t answer, then before I messaged him and said It’s freezing out 😐 cause it is, it’s horrible out today, and he didn’t answer me, i feel like i shouldnt have even messaged him today 🙁 I feel like an idiot.

[Ask April Masini]

I can give you advice, but I can’t make you take it. 🙁

Please read Think & Date Like A Man, like I suggested in my last post to you. It’s an automatic download at this link: [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url], and it’s only $8.99.

[i]After[/i] you read it, THEN, let me know how things go. 😉

[Author]

Posts