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Me and my partner have been together for 6 years, we fell head over heels and have just had our second child. I am totally in love with him, we don’t spend hardly any time together as a couple and all our energy is focused on the kids. My partner has just dropped the bombshell that he doesn’t know how he feels about me. He says he loves me but doesn’t know if it is just out of the love I give to the children, he doesn’t know if his heart is in it, he fancies me, can’t keep his hands off me and I drive him crazy in bed but something inside him has changed. He doesn’t know what but he says in work when people say did you notice how tight so and sos jeans were he joins in and has noticed not in a sexually way but it is totally out of character for him as before he would not of noticed. I even heard him say about 2 months ago about making a honest women of me, he says he is happy but there is something missing. I am so confused and shocked, I am hoping that by spending time together as a couple it may help, we birth want to try and sort it or so he says

[April Masini, your AskApril]

He may love you, but he’s uncertain about the future of the relationship. People have feelings, but it doesn’t mean that they will act on those feelings. In relationships, love is important, but behavior is more important — especially in adult relationships where there are responsibilities involved.

I hope that helps answer your question.

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