[angelwings14]

hi, .. ok so I have been talking to this guy named Ryan since the beginning of March. We talk literally everyday and never get bored talking to each other we always find something. He’s a great guy all around and makes me pretty happy. We are not together but we both have talked about our feelings towards each other on more than one occasion. He likes me more than a friend, and I can tell he truly does. But he says he not ready to have a relationship. He has been hurt so many times in his life by girls that its hard for him to trust. I have asked him if he trusts me and he says he does but he is just not ready to date yet. We have kissed more than once. I am willing to wait for him, but some people that I have talked to about this situation think that I may be wasting my time and waiting for something that may not even happen. I understand what they mean but what’s life without taking chances? Do you think that I may be wasting my time waiting for him to be ready for a relationship?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

How old are you both?

[angelwings14]

18 and 19. Am I wasting my time since I’m still young and there’s other people out there. He says he jus isn’t ready and I told him I would wait for him if he wanted me to..he didn’t argue. In fact he opened up to me even more after that.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Thank you for letting me know your ages. 😀

When a guy tells you he’s not interested in a relationship, you should pay attention and not ignore him. 😉 I hear from women your age, as well as much older than you, all with the same type of question, and usually, they end up wasting their time hovering and even worse, pursuing, a guy who has been very clear with them that he’s not interested in a relationship.

The trick to relationships is to find someone who wants the same things you do — for starters. When this guy is very clear he doesn’t want a relationship, and you do, that’s a no go — but if you do try to go, you’ll be in stall mode for a long time. My advice is to move on, and if he sees you moving on, he may become more interested in you because he’s going to lose you to someone else! But don’t use that as the reason to move on — move on because the two of you are not compatible.

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[angelwings14]

Thankyou 🙂

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You’re very welcome. 😀

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