[niicky]

I recently started spending time with a group of friends who I used to hang out with about 6 years ago.
There’s this guy who is very indifferent and aloof but also friendly. I’ve noticed that he sometimes looks at me when I’m not looking and he also asks question about myself every now and then so I kind of had an idea that he might like me. We, as a group, have been drinking together a couple of times. Once someone took my the pillow I was leaning on so he just wrapped his arm around my shoulder and let me lean on him instead. Another time we were three lying in bed just talking and he kept rubbing circles on my back. Then here the other night we were alone in bed with me practically lying in his arms and he told me: I don’t know if I should be telling you this. I don’t know if you’ve realized it but I’ve been sending you some signals and that’s because I’ve started having some feelings for you. I nervously giggled and told him I didn’t know what to say. He said that he just wanted to make it clear for both parties involved and I responded with: I’m glad (I know, lame right? My brain totally went blank). He then said that it’s nice lying here with you but there isn’t more in it.
So that totally confused me. Does he want to take things a step further or does he just want to cuddle when it’s convenient? Did he just tell me that there isn’t more in it because I didn’t know how to respond?
I’m not sure if I could see us as a couple but I would hate it to be awkward the next time we’re together as a group. He must have known it would complicate things right?

Thanks in advance 🙂

[damooster]

You didn’t give him anything to go with, so he probably believes you don’t feel the same way. Had you said or indicated that you were a bit interested, then he would probably have opened up more.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

How old are you both?

[niicky]

I do realize that he probably thinks that I rejected him. Since then it’s like my stomach hurts every time I think about him and I feel really bad about not giving him a better response. (As of yet I haven’t seen him since his confession).

I’m 22 and he is 23.

[niicky]

I do realize that he probably thinks that I rejected him. Since then my stomach has been hurting every time a think about him and I feel really bad about my response. (As of yet I haven’t seen him since his confession).

I’m 22 and he is 23 years old.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

If you like him, let him know that you like him by flirting with him. 😉

You’ll get a lot of information about this in the book I wrote for women who want to find, get and keep Mr. Right, called Think & Date Like A Man. You can buy it here: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url]. 🙂

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