[Anonymous]

First of all English in not my native language so sry for the writting mistakes.

Ok,so it’s about my gym trainer. We don’t talk or anything,not really and some may go ”well why are u asking this question ” but….

the gazes. I consider myself a pretty girl and the odd thing is he doesn’t talk to me at all ( he talks to some other girls sometimes and jokes around with them but I’ve noticed he mostly talks about excersize topics with them,and they are usually fanning over him,since usually when girls do come to the gym they are all over him,calling him to ask how to ”use a machine” even though they know perfectly well how to use it,always giggling to whatever he says etc. ) yet he never ( so far ) tried to come up to me and say something..then again I’m kind of a silent flower 🙂 I’m usually into my own bussiness and do my work out I’m not there to chat and I don’t want to be a giggling fan girl of his,but…he gives me gazes. when I come in the gym or change for work out he gives me these long looks,I see the way he looks at me sometimes..and the other night I was walking out the gym and he was outside with 3 of his guy friends and as I was approaching the 2-3 guys went silent/quiet and he looked at me and his eyes were on me and he was the first one to say ”bye,see ya” and when I walked by one of his friends said ” I just feel in love,you have to introduce me to her ” ,and he said that he won’t. Or he does little things,like hold the door open for me if I need to pass ( he doesn’t to that for other girls ). BUT…he also sometime avoids looking in my eyes,he looks elsewhere,which I find odd since he is very hot,and so open with some of the other girls.
Does he like me even a little bit,and if he does,why isn’t he trying to talk/joke around with me? then again,that’s maybe because I’m not the talkative/open type.

[Anonymous]

From what you have written – this guy does like you. 🙂 He is showing all the right body language. Guys do not always like loud upfront girls. They seem to be drawn to the more mysterious types.

He has made it obvious to you. Maybe he is a little shy about his feelings. Make it easier for him. Next time when he stares at you smile and then look away and look back at him again. This will show that you are interested. Try and build up courage to say hello or even start a conversation about something. e.g. How long have you been working here?

See where it goes from there. Keep us updated and join April on Facebook. 😆

[Ask April Masini]

He definitely likes you! But even confident guys need something to chase!! I liked [b]libra’s[/b] advice to you a lot. 😀 You should give him a little encouragement — something to go for. You don’t have to fawn all over him like the other female fans he has, but you do have to let him know that you’re interested, too!

I hope that helps! 😀

[Arijana]

Yay 🙂

Thank you Libra and April. what makes u say he made it obvious Libra? Thing is,I would like to give him some encouragement, just I don’t know how since he never gives me a chance.. For instance,last night he was talking to two other girls,giving high-fives to one of them, sitting behind his desk, and I was on the other side of the gym working out and I noticed him looking at me while they were talking to him but when I looked back he quickly looked away,I’m talkin’ real quick lol,and that discourages me 🙁 I am not shy about making the first move if I see something,and when he opened the door for me,he wasn’t even looking at me, he had his back turned and was reading some notebook of his and I was walking behind him and with one hand he opened the door 🙂 without even turning around or looking at me when I said ”thank you ” so…those kind of things tend to throw me off a bit. and usually if someone likes me I expect them to be friendly,talkative, open,touchy..Maybe he doesn’t see me as approachable? then again,there’s that feeling I get when we do look at each other and he doesn’t try to look away,and when he doesn’t want to hide that he’s looking at me…But I’m to blame here as well since I kinda look away too 🙂 I’ll stop doing that

I’ve started to do what Libra says since yesterday 😀 and he looks away but at least he keeps his eyes with mine for a while,and I’ll try showing him that I can be more open 🙂

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[Anonymous]

We talked today? 🙂 the topic wasn’t all that good though,I’m being stalked by a guy at my gym ( where the guy I like works as a personal trainer ) for a while now ,I told him,he was sitting on his chair I was standing next to him kinda close ,but he again did not look at me in my eyes ( he usually avoids it ) ,he kept his head low,his body kind of leaned forward, and listened, chuckling at some parts ,occasionally nodding slowly,and I hugged him at the end of the talk ( a gentle soft hug not a strangling one ) and at first he kept his head low ,but then he put his hand on my waist and kept it there 🙂

why the lowered head though? his eyes were also looking down but he did lift his gaze and looked at me twice while I talked. even when I hugged him at first he didn’t move just kind of gave a little smile and then put his hand on me.

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