[lilangeljoy]

I have a major problem… I have been seperated from my husband since Jan we are going thru a divorce which is much needed he was very physically abusive. Ok so 3 weeks ago a few old friends came back into my life and we all went out for a nice evening. 3 girls 1 guy… Well the one guy (we were all friends from like 10yrs ago) i had a major crush on 10yrs ago. he got divorced in april found out wife was cheating on him. when we went out we REALLY connected have been textn non stop! we spent last weekned together major deep talks. and tonite… well he tells me he doesnt get it he didnt wana be more than jus friends but he cant stop thinking about me n missing me n his mind is wondering on the future. its almost like im 15again!! im feeling the same way! we both said very slow but we keep getin drawn to each other. he told me tonite he can see a future n just thinking about me makes him happier then he has ever been. he doesnt regret his past bcuz its made him who he is today n brought us together… i have no clue what to do!!! i really really care about him and want to spend like every minute with him without a doubt he knows what ive been thru n said he doesnt care how long it takes for me he wants to be there to help me thru it n he will wait for me. i just want to dive head first into this but another part of me is saying no hes gona do to me what my x did. i just dono!! i know ive never had neone treat me like he does at all. im jus lost n fighting myself!!! help

[Anonymous]

Wow – I can feel the heat. 😉 I know how much you want to pour out your heart to this guy and say – take me know! control yourself and enjoy the passion. This feeling will not last long. Enjoy it – the wait will be worth it., 😉 Enjoy his company, become his confident and when the time is right to seal it with intimacy you will know. Do not let him use you as the passion will quickly wear away – let him sweat – it will pay off believe me. 😀

[April Masini, your AskApril]

It’s hard to start dating again after a divorce, but this crush is making it a lot easier for you to do exactly that! 🙂 Of course you’re afraid of making the same mistake twice, but it sounds like your soon to be ex-husband was physically abusive, and I don’t hear you saying that this guy is that. It’s normal to be skittish, but I don’t think you have a reason to be here.

Do what [b]libra[/b] said and take it slow and make him work for it! 😎 But don’t forget to enjoy yourself and your new freedom to explore who you are as a newly single woman in and out of relationships. Go for it! But slowly. 🙂

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