[mae4ever]

alright!I met this guy from Myspace. He’s 29 yrs old and works as a Executive technical Support and owns a house(He doesn’t have a Bachelor’s Degree).He sent me a message saying he likes my primary photo and there was all started. We known each other for 2 weeks and a half.We chat almost everyday. At first time we met , we just took a walk near my house where i just rent.He asked what do I do in life, what is my work.I said I work as a hostess in a restaurant. Then he said ” So u work as a hostess just to make a lil bit of money?” I got mute and didn’t say anything because i got offended.(I’m just 21yrs old.I just got here in US and living here for 9 mos. I have a Bachelors Degree in my country and he knows it.) I’m just starting my life here.He’s arrogant.After we walked, we chat again and he said he likes me.I said u didn’t even know me.Then he replied ” I liked u enough to know u better”. Then he asked to meet me again.Then we took a walk again.He also asked me a couple of times if what I’m gonna do on weekends.( I don’t know why!)And I said “work” which is true.

What gets me confuse is he said he likes me but he didn’t even ask for my number.And while I’m writing this he just got offline without saying anything to me.My last message to him is “he’s quiet” and he didn’t reply me back.until he just got offline.Please give me an answer so I know what I’m gonna do if I’m going to start ignoring him and forget or still continue to talk to him.And I don’t know too I’m still gonna talk to him co’z I like him even though he’s arrogant.

Thank you.

[Anonymous]

In my opinion…I don’t think he’s emotionally interested but maybe physically interested…Ask yourself when u go for walks..”Does he seem to be more interested in just staring at you” or does he seem excited about answering your questions or responding to your comments?” If he didnt ask for your number then thats either a definite NO or he’s in a relationship. I’m only 23 years old so I may not be accurate but I have nine brothers whom I learn from. I would say leave him be. There’s too many great guys out here to meet who will not try to belittle your occupation and whom you will never have to question his feelings for you because they would show.

[mae4ever]

thank you for that..and now he just asked me again to hang out with him..well, i don’t know..if he is just physically interested with me then he’s not his luck! haha…sorry for him..

[Clara]

I’ve already answered this question from you. Please only post each question once. You can add your comments or afterthoughts to the original question if you’d like. It’s much easier for me — and everyone else reading — to follow your problems and thoughts when you keep them all in one string of posts.

Thank you! 🙂

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