Take a different tact. Rather than getting upset with your husband, or having “the talk” with him about your sex life, take responsibility for your part in it.
Many women let themselves go, and come to expect sex rather than realize they have to work on their sex lives the same way they would anything else that’s important. Don’t be one of those women. Make sure you’re alluring and sexy more often than not! Keep up your grooming and your appearance. Make sure you have sexy lingerie, and that you don’t just act like the mother of a toddler and a wife of four years. Be his lover, too.
Check out my book written for couples who are having snags in their sex lives and want to get them back on track. It’s called Romantic Date Ideas, and you can download it here [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/romantic-date-ideas.html[/url]. You’ll find ideas for dates in all budget ranges and the dates are specifically designed to get the juices flowing and spice up things in the bedroom. They’re really great, sexy dates that you can set up for your husband and yourself, and I am so sure they’ll get your marriage back on track in the bedroom.
Another issue that may be plaguing your sex life is your child. Love ’em, but gotta have some husband and wife time without ’em! 😆 Your toddler is probably a big crimp in your sex life — possible interrupted sleep for you and your husband, parenting doesn’t make anyone feel sexy, and the concern that if you guys do get sex going, your toddler will cry out and need your attention. So make sure you have a date night or weekend where your daughter stays with her grandparents so you and your husband can either have the house alone or go to a hotel.
Be the vixen that seduces the man without getting upset that there’s not enough sex (libido-killer!!) or having to have “the talk”.
Let me know if this works, and how things go.
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