[angie b]

Hi April

I am not very much into the facebook networking. You can say I am still old fashioned 🙂
anyway I found out my boyfriend had a facebook account accidently. In other words, he used my computer and forgot that the login name remains and not the password. So I created a facebook page and I must admit I used another name and he allowed me to become one of his friends.

Once I was in I saw all these friends it became clear as to why has stop calling me and not wanting to spend time with me. It also became clear why his behavor has changed. I have not said anything to him about it. as a matter of fact he does not know he invited me into his page. I must admit I was upset to see him reaching out to all these other people especially females.

In my opinion, if a boyfriend does not inform his girl friend that he has a facebook that indicates cheating in my eyes especially when his behavior changes and there are many female friends on it. Am I being too jealous?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

No. You’re not being [i]too[/i] jealous. Everyone has their limits on what is appropriate and inappropriate. You’re entitled to your feelings about your boyfriend friending lots of women and spending less time with you, simultaneously. Other women may not have this problem — but you’re not other women!

It sounds like you’re really looking for a boyfriend who has values that are more traditional and like your own. You certainly have a right to that!

I hope that helped. Good luck!

[Trixie Ann]

You have the right to be jealous and keeping secret also means cheating. Your boyfriend is not faithful to you.

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