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    My ex-husband and I got back together five years ago. I moved back in and we got engaged. He has always been a very social person (he talks to EVERYBODY, but doesn’t like big crowds). When he goes places like the store, he comes home and tells me some female was flirting or throwing herself at him. He says that he told her he is married, but that doesn’t stop her. My 21 yr old daughter was with him once when it happened and she says “Dad told her he is married and she just didn’t get it til Dad said “I’m married and my wife would beat me”. He’s not Mr. Sexy – 5’5″, 205lbs (he’s not muscular, has a belly), balding. Why is this happening all the time??? Are middle aged women that desparately aggressive???? Please help!

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    Obviously, your fiance is a charming guy who attracts women. That’s the good news! Who wants to be with a dud, after all? 😆 It doesn’t sound like he is cheating on you, from what you wrote, so I don’t think you have anything serious to worry about. However, if this flirting bothers you, you have to look at what in your own life, and more specifically in this relationship, is making you feel threatened. Your fears are not coming out of the blue. You must have some reason to believe that he will leave you for someone else and that this flirting is the “gateway” to abandonment.

    My advice is to focus on your relationship and make it the best one possible. Flirting is a harmless way of complimenting someone — normally. Find a way to allow it to be part of your lives. 😀

    I hope that helps. Let me know how things go — and follow me on Facebook at: [url][/url] and @AskAprilcom on Twitter.

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