I have been with my bf for 8 months now, and he has a tendency to flirt alot
i read his text messages recently and it had things in it that would make you think he’s single. Like really BAD things..He claims he only texts girls like this when he is drunk or high. this keeps happening. SHOULD we just be friends? He really loves me alot, He has my name tattooed on him and everything, I love him as well, I dont know how much of this ‘flirting’ i can take.
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Flirting like that isn’t small stuff, especially when the messages make him sound single. Being drunk or high doesn’t really explain it away. It just lowers his filter. What’s already there comes out.
I believe he can love you and still keep doing this. Both things can be true. But loving you doesn’t cancel out the fact that this keeps hurting you. And the tattoo doesn’t change his behavior either. Words and symbols don’t matter much if the same thing keeps happening.
The real question isn’t should you just be friends. It’s how much more of this you can live with without slowly feeling smaller or less secure.
If you already feel worn down at eight months, that feeling usually doesn’t magically go away. It usually gets louder.
