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Here is a little background info before I tell you what I’m actually going to say. I’ve known this girl for like 8 months but didn’t really talk to her until this summer (around may). We were in the same class together but we didn’t really talk until we found out that we were the same major and that we had a lot in common. We exchanged numbers and decided to take some classes together during the fall (this semester) We now talk everyday and hangout outside of class a few times (we both have busy work hours and never really have days off). This being said, will the next paragraph be OK to tell her? Any advice on what to say and what not to say? Any advice on anything else to say?

So over the past couple of months we have become good friends. At first, I was shy around you but now that I have become more comfortable around you, you are getting to see the real side of me. You still haven’t seen the real side of me yet, I get so nervous when I’m around you. Like when we aren’t together I have so much stuff to tell you, but when we are together my mind goes blank. Over the past month I’ve had a huge crush on you. You are amazing in every way. I love your personality, how funny you are, your carefree attitude, your beautiful smile that every time I see you smile it makes me smile, you have the greenest eyes that I have ever seen, and everything about you is perfect. I’m not sure if you feel the same way about me but I really want to get to know you better. Every time I am with you, you make my day 100 times better, even if I am having the worst day ever your presence changes my view and I become excited and happy I know we both have hectic lives balancing 2 jobs and college classes at the same time, I know that we don’t have much free time but I really want to add you into my busy schedule because I really like you a lot. If you give me a chance to prove myself, I promise it will be worth it

[AskApril Masini]

No. 😮

At least not yet. 😉

First, decide what it is you want from her. Do you want to date her? Because if you do, then the next step is to ask her out on a date. As you get to know her by dating her, THEN, you can begin to tell her how amazing she is, and let her get to know you. For now, you’re in the friend zone. If you want to get out of it, then you have to do so, by asking her for coffee, drinks, a movie, dinner — whatever is appropriate for your age.

If you tell her how you feel and that you’re too nervous to be yourself around her, you’re taking care of you — but not her. And I know you’re not thinking about it this way, but it’s selfish. 😉 Put yourself in her shoes for a minute, and imagine what she’s feeling and what she wants. My guess is that she’d like to date you! If you take care of her needs (which will take care of yours, too), you’ll be a lot happier and so will she.

Hope that helps!

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what would you do if someone told/did this…

I really like this girl and I like to do nice things for people. So I have this idea but before I do it I would like people’s opinion on it. What would you do if a guy told you this…

Every girl deserves to be treated special so I got you this (I hand her flowers and a piece of cake)

[AskApril Masini]

I’d say that it was a very nice gesture. 🙂

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