[Ralph@fun]

Im coming on too strong by what i write in a text my mind works faster as i type so i say things the way i feel without considering her input.I have a tendency of puting foot in mouth.When we talk on the phone I feel better but we cant do that often because she’s a single mom meaning im trying to get her as a girlfriend without smothering her ive only met her once and we kissed before the night was threw. ive noticed when she texts me i feel good then i capitalize and say too much to where she doesnt text back
Im tugging at both ends and dont know what to do.
Help would be gladly apriciated

[Clara]

As far as your texting issues go, you already know what you’re doing wrong since you’ve articulately described the problem to me. All you have to do is follow your own lead, and correct the issues. 😉 For instance, just slow down and limit your texts. This is a discipline that’s harder to do than it is to discuss, but if you don’t start practicing the discipline, you won’t master it. 😉 Since you already know you text to much, and with too many capital letters, limit your texts to two a day — every other day. No matter what.

Next, since you’ve only met her once, call her up and ask her out on a date, in person. Once she says yes, stop texting her, except to confirm the day before the date that you’ll pick her up at her house at a particular time.

I hope that helps!

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[Ralph@fun]

Thanks i get it slow it down and then maybe ill start recieving more from her

[Clara]

Maybe, but don’t forget to ask her out on a real date so you don’t spend all your time online. 😉 Women who want to date and have a real relationship will lose interest if you don’t ask her out, and only text her.

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