[Caroline2010]

I am a 20 year old woman who has recently been engaging with a gentleman (aged 31) on a reputable online dating site. Subsequent to exchanging a number of emails we decided to meet up and from the onset appeared to connect. A second date has now been arranged. However, when writing my initial online profile I set my age to 24. I must stress that this was not done to deceive; I strongly believe that trust, honesty and respect are integral facets’ of all healthy human relations and form a framework for establishment of the same. My rationale is simply that, although chronologically I am 20, nobody thinks this, as due to life experiences etc, I appear and can be said to be, psychologically a great deal older. The latter is reflected within my friendships/ career / interests etc. I am now concerned that I may jeopardise any future that may or may not transpire between us by disclosing what I have done, whilst conversely feeling that it would be wrong and immoral of me not to do so. I would greatly appreciate some guidance!

[kai]

Hi Caroline,

I’ve told this to a bunch of other people who have posted questions in the WELCOME AREA: the Welcome Area [b]IS NOT for questions[/b] and [u]should not[/u] be used to get advice. 😮

it says “DO NOT post your questions” here, when you go to sign up. 😳

Please [b]repost your question in the Q & A Relationship Advice Forum[/b] if you want to get a response from April.

[b]You won’t get a response to your question here [/b] 😀

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Let me know how things are going for you? 😉

[Member]

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