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    soccerrox
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    I’ve been talking to this guy for about a year. We have become extremely close. We are not in a romantic relationship, but we do sext and send nudes on occasion. More recently, I’ve started seeing someone else. Nothing is official, and I would just consider us friends at this point. Despite this, I know he is persuing me. Wanting to be open with this new person, I opened up to him about my sexting. This upset him because he thinks I shouldn’t be talking to two people at once. I assured him that the sexting doesn’t have any romantic rlmeaning behind it, but he is still jealous and sad about it. I also assured him that if I ever decided to be exclusive with someone, the sexting and things like that would of course stop. What should I do?

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    It depends what you want! 😉

    If you want a monogamous, long-term relationship, you have to understand that most guys who want the same thing are not going to be okay with you sexting and sending nude photos of yourself to other men. They’re going to want you to be all for them, and when you reveal your other relationships, they’re going to feel rejected, depressed, angry, and other emotions. People who want monogamy usually feel this way when they find out someone they’re dating is sexting someone else. If you feel it’s too early in the relationship for him to feel that way, then maybe you should reconsider telling men you’re dating about the others you’re also dating, sexting or whatever…. In other words, it doesn’t work for you to have it both ways. Either you’re private about your other men until there is monogamy, or you look for men who aren’t interested in monogamy and won’t mind, and may even enjoy that you’re with other guys, as well (even if you don’t consider sexting and sending nudes being with other guys). You should also understand that men and women can’t be friends — and while you may consider this other guy your friend, he clearly doesn’t feel the same way.

    I hope this creates some understanding for you, so you can go after what it is you want in life. 😉

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