After seven months of dating, she’s interested in her old boyfriend, and wants to be “just friends”. That’s a nice of way of breaking up with you, and keeping you in her stable in case she’s ready again. She may sound confused, but what she’s actually doing is very clear.
Your choices are to stick around and see what happens, which will probably lead to a lot of anxiety and second guessing like you’re doing now, or you can move on and start dating other women, which is what I recommend. I think she will come around when she sees you’re strong enough to want a real girlfriend, not a friend zone situation, and when she sees you’re attractive to other women, that will make you more of a catch to her. Whether or not you want to date her again, is up to you, but I think your best bet is to move on.
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