Hi April
My head has been a mess as I think I have fallen hard for a male coworker who has a partner. Mutual friends say he is lovely and I dont believe he is 100% happy with his partner. He is a hard man to figure out, he is very smart and sometimes I feel he is socially awkward, I have caught him looking at me, lock eyes and talks to me unnecessarily on occasions. Recently he offered to drop me off his son’s bed and insisted to drop it off at my place at 6:45am even though i suggested a mutual friend do so and save him the hassle. Which is nice but now I feel like I have to be nice to him even though im unsure of his intentions and should stay clear. I just want to avoid him and have little contact now but dont want to appear rude and we work together atleast twice a week.
I notice he is friendly with another coworker, and offered to take her home after work even though it was out of his way & has offered to take an early boat to help her for a work event. I dont know if he is just a plain nice guy with no intentions, or if he is and I should stay clear. Help!!
