[Zombae]

My boyfriend doesn’t talk to me for 2-3 days. It’s become a pattern now. He’ll text me first and we’ll skype for a few hours until I hang up.We laugh and hang out nothing seems wrong. Then I don’t hear from him for a couple days…? We are both fairly young I just turned 17, while he’s 18 so I don’t think he’s totally busy (doesn’t have a job at the moment either.) Previous guys I’ve dated have all texted/called me at least once a day. Why might my guy disappear for a few days?

I would text him first, but my anxiety gets the best of me and I feel like I’m bothering him…he’s almost always asleep. Should I wait for him again this time or should I initiate a conversation? It’s been 3 days now and I haven’t heard from him yet…

[AskApril Masini]

Wait for him, but when he does contact you, instead of Skyping for 2-3 hours each time you connect that way, cut it down to 30 minutes. Leave him wanting more. 😉 You’re much more likely to get his attention the next day that way, than if you spend so much time with him online, when you do. In addition, stay busy! The more you have going on during this summer, the less energy you’ll spend getting anxious.

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