[Anonymous]

So i went on a blind date with my good friends sister im 27 and shes 28 we hung out and had a great time we went on another date and everything was great we talked on the phone everyday then for a third date we spent the day together and it was fantastic we laughed and had fun all day we ended up sleeping together and it was great we didnt use protection and i climaxed in her and now things seem weird after we had sex she told me that she doesnt normaily do this kinda thing and she had only been with a few guys in the last 10 yrs we spent the night together and things were nice the next day things were a little awkward but we made plans to see eachother again and now she seems to be trying to get out of our plans ,she doesnt seem to want to talk that much i did ask her if everything was ok and if she was ok with us sleeping together and she said she didnt have any regrets i feel bad and very irrisbonsable for not useing protection but i just got caught up in the moment and we havent even talked about this i really like her alot and i need help because i dont know what to do to get things back on track and i really dont no whats going on or what to do please help

[Anonymous]

hmmmm….sex can be a big issue for women….if she feels as though she slept with you too early…she may feel like you have different expectations from her etc…. If i were you—cool it on the sex—and focus on getting to know eachother—–sex is great—- but if u move too fast it can cause problems—-i would say to freak out—she obv diggs you—- just back track a bit and go on a sweet date—-like picking apples or carve pumpkins—just chill out and things will come together

[April Masini, your AskApril]

The best thing for you to do is take it down a notch, but continue to pursue her. Send flowers. Invite her to do something special. In other words, since everything you’re describing is in a “grey area’ and not entirely clear, you need to stay on track and pursue what you want.

If you do see her again, you may want to use your best sense of humor to stock her house and yours with condoms for future moments of passion! In addition to which, make sure that the sex is as good for her as it is for you. You may want to read my book, Date Out of Your League, that you can get here: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url]. You’ll want to pay special attention to the sections on sex.

I hope this helps. Let me know how things go. And join me on Facebook, too. Here’s that link: [url][/url].

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