I’m not sure how old you are, but if you’ve been on again, off again for 8 years — there’s no indication that you’re going to make it in the long run. In fact, his decision not to move with you, out of state, is his way of telling you that the relationship works for him on his terms, but he’s not going to make a commitment to you.
As for your question about what to do, you have decide what it is you want. That’s the key to your happiness. If you want a long-term relationship that will lead to marriage and a family, he’s not your Mr. Right. If after eight years, he’s not interested in this, he probably will never be. So if that’s what you want, then you should break up, move out of state, start a new life and date other people in your new area. If, however, you want to see him when it’s convenient for him, and date other people, as casually, in your new state, then he’s probably going to be interested in that — and will do the same. 😉
I hope that helps you decide what to do next.
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