[wonderfullygreat]

So my newest bf waited to go out with me for two years and i gave him the chance so were happily together. 😀 Things have been going great and he always goes to me for advice,but since spring break started our conversations have been really short and he doesn’t talk to me like we used to. 😥 i don’t know what’s been up with him lately.Earlier i asked him if he was feeling alright and he told me he was just out of it so i backed off and gave him some space. Yesterday i tried talking to him and he told me he was angry because our friend got him fired and made his brother look bad. He told me that he doesn’t care much about the job and that he’s more concerned on what happened to his brother. He seems to be acting different, I tend to feel peoples vibes and they come to me in a very intense way and i’m definetly reading his and it’s not so great. He seems to respond much more when i bring up that we should hang out and he seems very interested. He apologized to me for always being busy. I don’t know if I should back off and give him space to relax or if I should try talking to him because we seem to be losing touch and I’m worrying a lot and i’m afraid of losing him. What do i do?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Give him space and let him brood over what happened with his brother and the other guy. I know you want to “fix things” for him, but sometimes guys just need their space to work it out themselves. They don’t like to talk things through the way your girlfriends do. 😉 I know you’re afraid of losing him, but if you are, it’s not because of anything you did. I think he’s going to pout, let this problem blow over and then miss you and want to see you.

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[wonderfullygreat]

thank you! Well i have finally had some peace, but it’s not going so good. He says he still likes me but he feels that it’s unfair that we hardly get to spend time together outside of school. He has been really busy and i respect that. It’s just that time of the month where everyone is busy and we’re all trying. He told me that he wants to continue trying but at the same time he doesn’t and I feel the same way, but we’re both just stuck with not knowing what we want. I’ve gone out to seek for help and they told me to talk with him and i’m trying, but i’m just afraid of what’s going to happen.What can i do?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

How long have you been dating him?

[wonderfullygreat]

I dated him for a month. He said he still likes me but he doesn’t want to hurt me in any way. I know that he can get careless sometimes and he distances himself away from everyone and even his parents up to the point where he feels awkward around them as well. We broke up yesterday because we both didn’t want to lose each other as friends, but today i noticed that he would turn and look at me but he would stare for a long time. I’m really hurting as much as i don’t show it and i just dont know how to react. He told me that if we really try we can make it as friends because he’s going through a tough time. 🙁 😥

[April Masini, your AskApril]

It’s never a good idea to be friends with someone of the opposite sex because someone always has more feelings than the other person. And when you’ve dated or had sex or both, it’s definitely a bad idea. My advice is to accept the break up and move on.

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