Basically my boyfriend and I had had been going out a while and we were really in love, but his sister could never handle it. She thinks all these things about me which aren’t true and when I’ve tried to speak to her calmly she refuses to talk to me. She started having panic attacks and stuff about us being together, so his parents and her put a lot of pressure on him to break up. He got sick of the fighting and stuff at home so we had to do it.
Now it’s been two weeks, and I know he was still in love with me when we broke up. He just believes the situation with his sister is unfixable so he’s told me he’s ignoring his feelings for me and he’s already started to like another girl.
I’m still really in love with him, and I want him to see there is a way to make this work. How can I do this?
I’ve tried talking to him but I went completely over the top (like most do in a break up) and ended up pushing him further away. He’s still the one who chose to be friends though.
I’ve been thinking about doing no contact for a couple of weeks to give him some rest and time to think and maybe miss me enough to find a way to be with me.
My question is, do you think this will work? What’s the best way to make him come back to me? I’m skeptical about no contact since he can focus on this new girl and he’s doing his best to keep busy and ignore his feelings for me so I don’t want this to backfire.
He’s also refusing to see me cause he says he “can’t handle it” as it will bring back too many good memories he doesn’t want to remember yet. There’s no way I can accidently bump into him either.
WHAT DO I DO?
April Masini, your AskApril.
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