[Anonymous]

Okay.. So it has been 3 months sense my ex-boyfriend/fiance broke up with me… Just three months ago were engaged and were seriously discussing marriage. We’ve always been able to just be honest with each other..We were great together and we just made sense. Every time we broke up we always came back to each other. We were always crazzzy about each other. But this past time he broke up with me..it was different. A month went by and he finally got in touch and told me he wanted to work things out and he missed me…but for some crazy reason changed his mind again!! and he’s still with rebound girl. I think he’s confused. I know he wants me… We were amazing together.. even tho we had problems here and there that could of been worked out. I have not had the chance to just maturally without all the extra emotion tell how I feel about all this and show him I’ve changed. I don’t want to lose him completly. He means the WORLD to me. Should I just go tell him how I feel and if he doesn’t agree and doesn’t want to work it out just move on…or just not say anything at all?? I want a chance to express myself to him.. but I don’t know if taking that risk will push him away or just help greatly and make him see?! All I want is for us to be together again.. i’ll do whatever it takes..please help!!!!!! This is effecting my first semester of college pretty bad. I just have not been able to get ahold of myself to move on and not care. I feel like I’ve lost my other half!!!! All I talk now about to all my friends and family is him and wanting him back…It’s not only driving me crazy but them too! I just KNOW this is the guy for me. This doesn’t feel right to be living one day without him. Any advice for me to get the guy of my dreams back would be sooo helpful. <3

[April Masini, your AskApril]

It takes two people to make a relationship work, but only one to break it up. Unfortunately, your ex-fiance has broken up with you and in spite of his attempt to try again, he’s now dating someone else. I know you call her his rebound girl, but even a rebound girl is an attempt to move on.

It’s understandable that this heartbreak is getting in the way of your college studies, but if you can accept that he’s moved on and try to do the same, yourself, you’re more likely to waste more time on someone who’s not Mr. Right.

I’m sorry.

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